Love in action

Oct. 23, 2025

By Rev. Riz Prakasim

“Simon son of John, do you love me?” Jesus asks Peter three times in John 21:17. And three times, Peter affirms his love. Each time, Jesus responds not with sentiment, but with a call to action: “Feed my sheep.”

That call continues today. Recently, our youth group took part in that same invitation by partnering with Northeast Youth and Family Services to pack 160 meal kits for their clients. Each meal packed was a tangible expression of love—a way of saying, “Yes, Lord, we love you,” through service to our neighbors.

You can’t love people well without trying many ways to meet their needs. Love in action demands imagination and flexibility. To innovate in the church world is simply to be creative in how we care for others—the hungry, the lonely, the overlooked. In the early days of the Christian movement, this was precisely what caught the world’s attention. Followers of Jesus lived with such compassion and inventiveness that the Roman Empire took notice. They created new systems of care for the sick and poor, founded hospitals and schools, and built communities where all could belong.

The monasteries that emerged centuries later continued that legacy of holy innovation. Benedictine communities practiced shared decision-making where even the youngest had a voice—an early echo of democracy. Syrian monasteries taught girls to read and write when few others did. These were not just creative ideas; they were expressions of deep, active love.

When the church takes part in God’s new thing, it becomes an engine of possibility. Love drives invention. Compassion fuels courage. The question Jesus asked Peter—“Do you love me?”—is not just for the disciples of the past, but for us here and now.

Our youth didn’t just pack boxes; they participated in something sacred. They imagined a world where no one is forgotten, where God’s love shows up in practical, nourishing ways. If we aim for love, we will inevitably bump into innovation along the way.

We’re not called to have great ideas. We’re called to have great love and to feed God’s sheep wherever they are found.

A plea for “Simple Church”

Oct. 16, 2025

By Rev. Rick King

Many people my age who grew up going to church grew up with the institutional assumption that the more a church grew, the more programs and activities it would offer.

In fact, in 1992 the late church consultant Lyle Schaller wrote a bestselling book for church leaders called “The Seven-Day-a-Week Church,” equating the success of megachurches with the ever-growing number of programs they had for every kind of churchgoer.

Fourteen years later, a Baptist named Thom Rainer wrote a book called “Simple Church,” that advocated instead for churches designed around a straightforward and strategic process that moves people through the stages of spiritual growth.

We’ve all seen the challenge of “the church busy” and maybe experienced it ourselves: Church can easily end up burning people out. In some cases, pursuing the goal of becoming a busy, active, growing church, people can end up with no life except church life. Some of the churches we most admire (from the outside, at least) offer so many programs for families that families don’t even have a chance to be families!

But what if, instead of maintaining or launching programs and activities that attract attention to the church, saying “Look at us! Come join us!”, we focused on what equips people to live their faith out in the world and the rest of their lives—not just their lives when they’re at church?

After all, if you and I want to live out our faith in the world, we need to be IN the world. Canadian pastor Carey Nieuwhof says, “Churches that focus their energies on the few things the church can uniquely do best will emerge as the most effective churches moving forward. Simplified churches will complement people’s witness, not compete with people’s witness.”

So here’s to Simple Church—the Church Faithful and Focused, rather than The Church Busy.

If you had to pick ONE thing our new church should focus on doing really well—what would that be?

Our cocoon season

Oct. 9, 2025

By Rev. Riz Prakasim

Early in the morning on the first day of the week, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene came to the tomb and saw that the stone was moved away from the entrance. — John 20:1

This month we begin a new sermon series called Emerge. Over the next few weeks, we’ll explore transformation—not just as a nice idea, but as a deep reality of the Christian life. From creation itself to Mary’s courageous “yes” that brought Jesus into the world, to the sealed tomb where God’s power overcame death, transformation runs through our story. It’s part of our own lives, too, even when we can’t quite see it.

At the end of Jesus’ life, Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus tenderly laid his body in a new tomb and rolled the stone shut. Mary came “while it was still dark” and found that something had already happened — something hidden, silent, and unstoppable. The first whisper of resurrection began in darkness.

Author Barbara Brown Taylor reminds us: “New life starts in the dark. Whether it is a seed in the ground, a baby in the womb, or Jesus in the tomb, it starts in the dark.” Darkness can feel uncertain, lonely, even frightening. Yet it is also where God works quietly and powerfully. The dark is not only the place of endings—it is the womb of beginnings.

Think about the caterpillar. When it’s time to change, it doesn’t step neatly into a new shell; it becomes a cocoon, dissolving into something unrecognizable before forming wings. Transformation is rarely tidy. But everything needed for the butterfly was already there.

So it is with us. God has planted in each of us—and in our church—the seeds of who we are becoming. But there’s no shortcut to emergence. We must let go of what was, step into the unknown, and trust the Spirit’s hidden work.

We are in a cocoon season right now as a community, waiting and trusting as God shapes what comes next. These seasons can’t be rushed, but they are sacred.

Hear the good news: The dark is not empty. The tomb is not wasted space. The cocoon is not a dead end. This is where God is closest, knitting new life we cannot yet see.

Let’s walk this journey together, leaning on one another’s prayers, presence, and hope. When we emerge—individually and as a church—it won’t be a return to what was, but a transformation into what we were always meant to be.

Risking in the name of love

Oct. 2, 2025

By Rev. Rick King

In worship all during the month of September, our theme was change. We explored how we are made for change, but also the reasons why our brains tend to resist change. We talked about neuroplasticity—the brain’s capacity to rewire itself in response to new stimuli within and outside of ourselves.

We saw how change is inevitable, because it’s necessary to maintain our inner equilibrium no matter how much change is happening around us. And we recalled how important it is to be embraced by “courage buddies,” those who encourage us in taking the first steps of change
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The reason we explored what the Bible and our tradition says about change is simple: You and I are going through a LOT of change right now and can expect more in the coming year. I say “you and I” because we’re all going through change together: the Interim Joint Board, Merger Steering Committee, Riz and I are also challenged by the need for change.

But what if the motivator for innovation, experimentation and risk-taking was LOVE, and not just our own survival?

Canadian pastor Carey Nieuwhof writes, “Churches that thrive will take risks and have an experimentation mindset.” But thriving is more than just having our attendance and volunteer numbers increase. God is calling our churches to merge because together we can do more for longer than we can separately.

But a more compelling case for merger is LOVE—as in, “O Love, that will not let me go.” The love that powered Jesus was a love present before creation (Genesis 1:1-3, John 1:1-5), the source of all that was, and is, and is yet to come.

Father Richard Rohr, a Franciscan friar and one of the world’s most influential spiritual thinkers, says this love is what we call the “Christ” in Jesus Christ. And it’s also the reason why we are merging: for the sake not only of our welfare but that of the people in our wider community who NEED a church like this—open, affirming, loving, serving—and haven’t found or become part of it yet.

What are YOU willing to risk in the name of that Love?

The holy work of imagination

Sept. 28, 2025

By Rev. Riz Prakasim

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you. – Philippians 4:8-9

Peace be with you. We enter this season of Fall with renewed momentum and direction. We have moved into a new phase together, as not only are we having joint worship twice a month, but we are also using the same sermon series, which means we are now using the same liturgy more or less for the next few months.

In September, the Presbytery of the Twin Cities Area officially sanctioned our merger path with Falcon Heights UCC by voting in favor of our two faith communities coming together. Also in September, we had our first Interim Joint Board retreat at St. Paul’s UCC, in which we got to know one another, which is the foundation to building a healthy relationship. In addition, we attended to items of business, including planning the next steps ahead as we prepare to permanently transition to the Falcon Heights location.

One of our exercises included growing our theological imagination. We asked elders to imagine what a church publication or local newspaper might write about the new church five, 10 or 15 years from now. Here are some of the headlines they came up with: The Spirit is Alive, It Was God All Along, New Roots Bear Fruit on Garden Avenue, Merged Church Opens Third Mission Site, Local Church Focal Point of Community Action!

For change to happen well, we first need to create psychological space for that change by imagining what is possible. Before we can plant new seeds of ministry, we must first picture what the garden might look like. Imagination is holy work. It allows us to move beyond what is, into what could be. It invites us to dream about new forms of worship, new ways of caring for our neighbors, and fresh opportunities to embody Christ’s love in the world.

The apostle Paul encouraged the early church to set their minds on what is noble, pure, admirable, and praiseworthy, cultivating their holy imagination and then to putting those things into practice. This guidance feels especially timely for us now. What we choose to focus on shapes the kind of community we are becoming. If our imaginations are filled with fear, we risk shrinking back. But if our imaginations are filled with what is excellent and life-giving, we create the conditions for the Spirit to move among us.

As we look ahead, let us imagine ministries that are both faithful and bold. Picture classrooms filled with children learning about God’s love, fellowship halls where meals are shared with neighbors, worship services alive with song and joy, and partnerships that bring justice and compassion into our community. Each of these visions is a seed waiting to be planted, watered, and nurtured by our shared faith.

May we meditate on what brings joy and life and, more importantly, put them into practice. And as we do, we can be confident that the God of peace will be with us—guiding, sustaining, and surprising us with new life at every turn.

Meet our new nursery attendant

Julie Harrington has been hired as our new Sunday nursery attendant. Julie has over 30 years of experience in early child care at A Child’s View in St. Paul and The Learning Garden in Maplewood. She is one of those people whose calling is caring for children, especially the very youngest. She’s held positions such as lead infant teacher and has managed assistant teachers in these licensed child care centers.

Julie is current in infant and child first aid and CPR. In addition to annual background checks as a child care teacher, she’s passed our staff-required background check through MinistrySafe. She is semi-retired, but works three mornings a week at a child care center, and just can’t get enough of caring for, teaching and loving young children!

A table-centered community

Sept. 18, 2025

By Rev. Rick King

It happened at our house four years ago. My wife, Linda, and I became pretty much the only ones who consistently ate meals together at the kitchen table. Somewhere along the way we gave up trying to have nightly family dinners, mostly due to the clashing schedules of our emerging young adults who worked or had classes during the usual mealtimes.

Not that this is a tragedy. Our 1,500-square-foot 1941 home on California Avenue in Como Park was built without an enclosed dining room. I suspect none of the other houses on our block do either in what seems to have been built as a working-class neighborhood of starter homes during World War II. We have a cute little dining nook in the kitchen, enclosed in a plaster archway with bench seating on two sides and a chair on the third, with a bright, sunny southern exposure that makes it especially wonderful in the winter.

But the disappearance of group dining is part of a trend. Last year, in an Atlantic magazine piece, “Why Dining Rooms are Disappearing from American Homes,” Nolan Gray described this architectural trend in new homes and renovations of “great rooms” that have taken the place of the traditional dining room, because people don’t use them anymore, preferring to eat alone in other spaces while watching TV, scrolling on their phones, or working on laptops.

On the one hand, it makes efficient use of square footage at a time of rising building costs. But this trend toward eating alone in spaces other than around a dining room table is appearing in other ways in American life.

In the magazine’s January cover story, “The Anti-Social Century,” Derek Thompson described a small Mexican restaurant near his home in North Carolina. The bar—formerly a busy gathering point loud with conversation and popular with regulars—is now lined with carry-out bags which customers come in silently to pick up and go eat at home. Probably alone. The restaurant itself seldom has dine-in customers anymore.

As Thompson writes, “Self-imposed solitude might just be the most important fact of the 21st century in America.” Robert Putnam’s book “Bowling Alone” came out in 2000, bringing to our national attention what former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy called “an epidemic of loneliness” in America.

But what if all this represents a tremendous opportunity for local churches like ours to become “table-centered communities” again? Whether a regular neighborhood dinner, a monthly meetup of congregants at Stout’s for conversation or “theology on tap,” or an alternative, dinner-church-style worship service—where people regularly gather to cook dinner together and share a common meal and worship service—all these are ways this new church can be counterculturally communal again, offering an antidote to the loneliness epidemic.

What possibilities do YOU see?

Engagement will drive attendance

Sept. 11, 2025

By Rev. Rick King

This is the seventh in a series of columns reflecting on pastor/blogger Carey Nieuwhof’s 13 predictions for the future church, in the light of our opportunity to create a NEW church through our prospective merger with New Life.

You may have noticed, as I have, that attendance continues to drop in our church and many other churches. In the smaller ones like ours, it’s more noticeable, but large churches are experiencing it, too.

We noticed it in coming back from the pandemic in early 2022: The older members in our congregation largely returned to Sunday worship, but we have struggled to get children and families to return to church on a regular basis. And if you were here on Aug. 24 for the Summer Kids’ Camp Celebration service, you saw the difference in joy and energy that young people bring to Sunday morning.

As Carey Nieuwhof notes, “The current approach to church has largely been driven by getting people to attend. The idea is this: get them in the door, and then hopefully, at some point, they’ll engage in the mission.”

That’s what you might call the Christendom model of how to grow a church: attraction rather than engagement.

But do you know why the steadiest attendees in our congregation are our older members? Because long ago, seeking a spiritual home here and raising their families, they became ENGAGED in meaningful ways, and this church became for them a place to return to, week after week.

We can hold large events to try and attract a crowd to a Sunday service—a music service, Christmas pageant, or some other high-profile event that will bump up attendance for a Sunday or two during Advent or some other time of year—but it never lasts.

If you think about the best moments in the Church’s history, ENGAGEMENT has always driven attendance. That’s why this fall, we’re inviting kids into more roles that matter in worship such as acolyting, greeting, ushering and reading in order to engage them and their parents. If they have an important job here, then in addition to attending Faith Formation classes on the second and fourth Sundays of the month, they have reason to be here.

Engagement also happens through “digital” ministry: our livestream each Sunday, but also posts on social media such as Facebook, and other platforms we have yet to explore and use. HOW we use these digital tools also matters. Are we telling people simply to “watch us on YouTube,” (passive consumption of content)—or are we inviting them to participate in something where they’ll meet new people and experience Christian community where they not only feel they belong, but also can make a difference in others’ lives?

Think back to how YOU first got engaged at Falcon Heights Church. Could you strengthen your engagement? Is there someone you want to invite who’s looking for a church like ours?

Visioning Team to begin work

An eight-member team from New Life and Falcon Heights churches will soon begin a community discovery process to help us discern a vision for our newly merged church. Members of the Visioning Team are Ruth DeYoe, Judi Klotz, Joyce Griffin and Jackson Gienger from New Life; and Jeanie Morrison, Conee Biggs, Brian Knapp and Larry Schumacher from Falcon Heights. Rev. Rick and Pastor Riz will also participate in the committee in a supporting role.

The process, guided by facilitator Emily Meyer, is expected to start in October and to take at least a month. After training, the team will conduct interviews with people in the congregation and the community, listening carefully and being sensitive to assumptions, Meyer told church leaders at a retreat last weekend. The team will also gather demographic data and identify assets of our congregation and the neighborhood.

The team will pool what has been learned, seek to discern where God is calling us to engage with our neighbors, and begin considering a draft of a mission statement that will guide the planning for the new church.

The Common Table is here

Falcon Heights Church’s weekly newsletter, the TAB, has been retooled as “The Common Table” to keep both churches informed as we enter a more active phase of the merger between Falcon Heights and New Life Presbyterian Church.

Members of both congregations will receive The Common Table each Thursday afternoon. It will include the latest merger updates, as well as news of joint projects and happenings in each church. Our pastors will take turns writing the weekly pastors’ column.

If you are not currently on either church’s mailing list, you can subscribe using the link near the top of the home page.